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comprehensive CONNECTIOn-centered curriculum

When young people feel they belong, they thrive.

You Belong Here builds practical life skills, starting in Kindergarten, that emphasize healthy relationships and connection. These evidence-informed skills also address, both directly and indirectly, the root causes of violence, promoting safety, mental wellness, and help-seeking in risky situations.

the problem

All human behavior comes from the need to belong.

When young people don’t feel they matter, they seek significance wherever they can find it, including in risky, harmful, or violent behaviors.

Curriculum Overview

Transforming how schools approach safety and harm reduction

Research- and evidenced-based

100+ lessons aligned with the social-ecological model of violence prevention and grounded in Significance Quest Theory (SQT).

Addresses root causes of all forms of violence

Recognizing that violence stems from common roots, this curriculum asks how we can build better relationships and more connected communities. YBH proactively impacts bullying, teen dating violence, sexual violence, peer-to-peer violence and self-harm.

In a world that feels increasingly disconnected, we must find a way to bridge the divide.

Epidemic of Loneliness

Nearly half of Americans report
feeling lonely or isolated, with young adults almost twice as likely to report feeling lonely than those over 65

Echo Chamber Effect

Social media algorithms can reduce exposure to cross-cutting content by up to 45%, narrowing our exposure to diverse viewpoints

Growing Tribalism

64% of Americans believe people are incapable of having constructive conversations about issues on which they disagree

standards met

A comprehensive curricula that aligns with national health and violence prevention standards

Contact for Specific Standards Met

In alignment with CASEL framework

In alignment with the National Health Education Standards

In alignment with the CDC National Standards

curriculum focus

Evidence-Informed Prevention & Connection

Following violence prevention research, we created a curriculum that teaches the skills and buffers the protective factors proven to reduce violence and harm among youth.

CDC Violence PreventionChild Trends' Preventing Violence StudyCSIS Youth Violence Prevention in the US
PREVENTION SKILLS

Self-Regulation

Setting and Respecting Boundaries

Communication

Non-Violent Problem Solving

safety & relationship skills

Managing Conflicts with Respect

Making Sincere Apologies

Healthy Breakups

Handling Rejection Constructively

protective factors

Pro-Social Connections

Expectations for healthy, non-violence relationships

Positive Mental Health

PREVENTION SKILLS

Boundary Setting

Assertive Communication

Critical Thinking

Media LIteracy

Upstander Behavior

safety & relationship skills

Self-Care & Coping Strategies

Help-Seeking

Grooming Tactics Awareness

Abuse Awareness

Exploitation Awareness

Radicalization Awareness

Trafficking Awareness

protective factors

Support During Difficult Life Events

Community Connectedness

Safe & Trusted Adults

Stable Identity

PREVENTION SKILLS

Critical Thinking

Social Responsibility

Collaboration & Community Building

Upstander Behavior

protective factors

Expectations for healthy, non-violent relationships

Community Connectedness

Connection to School

Cultural Norms that do not support aggression towards others

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curriculum focus

Prevention Through Connection

Violence Prevention Elements

EMPATHY
COMMUNITY CONNECTEDNESS
PRO-SOCIAL CONNECTIONS

Interpersonal Relationship Skills

critical thinking
social responsibility
Collaboration & Community building
upstander behavior
Expectations for healthy, non-violent relationships
Community Connectedness
Connection to School
Cultural Norms that do not support aggression towards others
CDC Violence Prevention
Child Trends' Preventing Violence Study
CSIS Youth Violence Prevention in the US

lesson scaffolding

Building Students Up

Students begin each grade level by establishing their own community agreements, creating a collaborative space for learning and growth. Lessons then progress from developing personal skills and healthy relationships to understanding how students can create positive change in their broader communities.

Kindergarten

  1. Kindness in Kindergarten Part A

  2. Kindness in Kindergarten Part B

  3. Managing Big Feelings

  4. Boundaries: Asking for & Giving Consent

  5. Boundaries: Safe & Unsafe Behaviors

  6. Bullying & Upstander Behavior

  7. Respecting Others & Belonging

  8. Making Space for Grief & Loss

1st - 5th Grade

  1. Kindness & Connection

  2. Managing Strong Emotions

  3. Boundaries: Safe & Unsafe Behaviors

  4. Bystander Behavior & Help Seeking

  5. Respecting Others & Belonging

  6. Grief & Loss

6th - 8th Grade

  1. Who Am I: Identity and Decision Making

  2. Forming Community Agreements

  3. Why and How Do We Connect?

  4. Connection Through Kindness

  5. Building a Belonging Community

  6. Significance and Building Resilience

  7. Digital Wellbeing

  8. Cyberbullying

  9. Rejection and Social Pain

  10. Mental Health & Illness

  11. Lacking Belonging, Losing Significance

  12. Grooming: Who Do We Trust Online?

  13. Radicalization and Media Literacy

  14. Relationship Behaviors

  15. Communication and Conflict Resolution

  16. A Blueprint for Belonging

Health I

  1. Introduction

  2. The Danger of Silence

  3. What is a Healthy Relationship?

  4. How to Argue

  5. How to Apologize

  6. Building Stronger Connections: Boundaries & Control

  7. Building Stronger Connections: Consent & Rejection

  8. How Might We Break Up?

  9. How Might We Handle Rejection?

  10. Why Consent Matters

  11. How Might We Better Protect Ourselves & Others?

  12. How Might We Make Change Happen?

  13. Prototyping Our Solutions

  14. Presenting Our Solutions

  15. Final Reflection: Values, Strengths, and Future Visions

Health II

  1. The Interconnectedness of Violence

  2. Biased Attitudes Part 1: Social Identity & Groups

  3. Biased Attitudes Part 2: Culture

  4. Digital Dynamics: Understanding Dehumanization & Social Media Responsibility

  5. From Attitudes to Actions

  6. Understanding Radicalization and Supporting Peers

  7. Case Studies: Violence Pyramid

  8. Building Connections Across Differences

  9. Understanding Other Perspectives

  10. What Makes an Active Bystander?

  11. Violence Prevention: Project Planning

  12. Violence Prevention: Project Presentations

  13. Final Reflection: Values, Strengths, and Future Visions

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Adaptive for Different Learning Levels

Culturally-Responsive

Classroom as a Mini-Community

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Frequently Asked Questions

Is the “You Belong Here” curriculum considered a Social Emotional Learning curriculum?

Our 'You Belong Here' (YBH) curriculum prevents violence by addressing the interconnectedness of all acts of harm, and uncovering their single root cause - the human need for significance & belonging. Using proven social-emotional learning (SEL) framework, our programming builds empathy, accountability, gratitude, and emotional agility through human-centered education. Nest students ultimately build better connections and stronger communities so they can flourish both in their childhoods and throughout their lives.

Are the lessons intended to be taught in sequential order?

Yes, YBH lessons are designed with a gradual scaffold and build upon each other. Teaching them in order will assure that students develop the necessary skills to move forward with the material.

How many lessons are included in the curriculum?

There are 5-6 lessons for each unique grade level, except at the middle school level. Based on Health standards, 7th and 8th grade lessons are combined.

Who are the lessons designed to be taught by?

The YBH curriculum is aligned with national and state Health Education standards, therefore Health educators typically teach this material. However, every school district/organization can decide who is the most qualified (and trained) to facilitate the YBH curriculum.

How long are the lessons in this curriculum?

The lessons within this curriculum address challenging topics. They have been created for skill building, engagement, discussion, and critical thinking. Facilitators should prepare 45-50 minutes for lessons, if being taught in its entirety.

How do staff members get trained?

Asynchronous training will be embedded in the teacher portal. School districts/organizations can request live training in person training for an additional cost.

Can counselors and teachers co-facilitate lessons?

Yes, any trained professional can facilitate these lessons.

curriculum parrtnership

In partnership with NYU's The Listening Project, NEST developed Blueprint for Connection as a way for classrooms and groups of all kinds to build communities based on mutual respect. The Listening Project, founded by Dr. Niobe Way and directed by Holly Van Hare, brings five years of successful classroom implementation and expertise in teaching transformative interviewing skills. NEST contributes its research-backed approach to violence prevention through Significance Quest Theory and essential relationship skills development. Through this partnership, participants experience being seen, heard, and valued as they develop the skills for more resilient connections.

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