YOU BELONG HERE Violence Prevention Curriculum

Seventh & Eighth Grade

LESSON

Three

Why and How Do We Connect?

60 min

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This lesson explores how our social identities shape the way we perceive and interact with others. Students engage in an activity where they read different versions of a story about a boy named James, prompting them to reflect on how group membership influences their judgments. Through classroom discussions, they examine concepts like in-group favoritism, bias, and stereotypes. The lesson highlights the dangers of out-group bias and introduces the concept of cross-cutting identities to bridge divides between different groups.
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how to prepare for this lesson

At the start of class, teachers should have the following prepared:

  1. A plan to split class into pairs
  2. Copies of one version of the stories on 7.3-1 James' Story handout for each student (do not give both versions to each student, split them up)
  3. Copies of 7.3-2 Student Interview Questions handout for each student
  4. Student journals ready to be distributed

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Additional Resources

Sources

  • This lesson was adapted in part from 36 Questions to Help Kids Make Friends by the Greater Good Science Center, Berkeley.
  • Baumeister, R.F., & Leary, M.R. (1995). The need to belong.
  • Tajfel, H., & Turner, J.C. (1979). An integrative theory of intergroup conflict.
  • Noba Project. (n.d.). The psychology of groups.
  • Gaertner, S.L., & Dovidio, J.F. (2000). Reducing intergroup bias.